Tuesday, September 06, 2011

Childhood Friend's Engagement. Kg Dato' Abu Bakar Baginda.

Last Sunday was my good childhood friend's Engagement Day. Kitorang dah kawan sejak lahir rasanya, our mothers memang geng since then, that time still lived in Bangi, and at certain time her family moved to UK and back again during primary school. Then, kitorang jumpa balik masa sama-sama belajar kat UIA.

Tahniah Wan! ah, I'm used to call her Dayah, instead of Wan sebab if panggil Wan.. all the others Wan will be looking at me, of kos la sebab her siblings semua nya nama start with Wan. Tapi disebabkan kawan-kawan UIA semua panggil Wan, so saya pun terikut-ikut dengan super auto nya menjadi Wan, selang-seli.. Wan-Dayah-Wan-Dayah...


Ah! Tak kesah lah...


Whatever it is, I like so much the Engagement Ceremony. Really.


Simple and yet give a big impact and such a sweet memory to all the guest yang datang. No need sort of PELAMIN. No need a heavy make-up. She wasn't even hired any make-up artist on that day. Make up sendiri wa cakap lu, natural look sampai saya yang sibuk komen, wehhh... tak nak tambah eye liner lagi ke? Lol~ Maybe she's perfect with how she looks. So itu semua tak penting! Then tiba-tiba saya jadi bidan-terjun sebagai Pemakai-Tudung beliau. Lawaks.


Yang penting, the ceremony itself kan.


What's in line with our religion, what's do and don't to gain barakah in whatever we do as a good Muslim (not only to consider as we are now as a GOOD MUSLIM, hey, kau tau ke kau baik ke tidak? orang baik takkan pernah mengaku dia baik, dan orang jahat pernah kah mengaku dia jahat?... but... What I want to mention here is, in the way to be a Good Muslim, our journey, our practice. not yet but the intention is there, oh! something like that la, did you get what I mean? huhu).


Buat apa buat Majlis Bertunang bagai nak rak sampai ada pelamin? Sampai sekarang I don't get what you people think the must of that thing? can someone elaborate it on me? Just because you don't have a nice room to sit in, or your house don't have a nice chair to take a picture later on, so you pay for this kind of small pelamin for your Engagement? hmmm... I'm sorry.. I don't get it.


Do you know that, Engagement is something that you should keep between your family or close relatives only actually?. If you are truly practicing the Islamic teaching, you may know about this. The reason why is... Engagement isn't a guarantee for the lover to live together after that. If something happened during the period of engagement, and the promise is broken (if)... the family can close the shame peacefully without any back evil voice from others. Hmmm.. something like that. But I don't know who will practice this since we have Facebook and so many social network in this world.



Sebagai contoh sekarang, saya sendiri yang excited menge-pos picture dan bercerita di sini. huuu... *tak-tahan-nak-share-good-news*


Even how good we keep the secret, but kalau kawan kita dah tag gambar kat Facebook or upload in Twitter or whenever it is, dah tak jadi secret la kan. Itu ok lagi la, yang penting jangan membazir-bazir dalam apa sekali yang kita buat. Majlis nak gah je, tapi bila kaf-ba-ro-kaf-alif-ta-nun (keberkatan) tak ada, do you think someone will gives you the happiness?
Ha-ha...


Again! Congratulations Dayah! *smile*



Since we were friend since primary school until university, so both primary school friends photo and university photo pon ada muka saya lah! *gilagambar* =P


















SKDABB. photo taken by Balqis, edited by Me.
















UIA. photo taken by Teh.Haha, edited by Me.
Thanks Saleha =)



Note : A day before the Engagement, rumah dayah kena rompak actually, habis macam rumah-kucing-beranak dikerjakan nya. Hoi! hari raya pun nak merompak apa kessss! *geram*. But Alhamdulillah, majlis still berjalan dengan lancar dan ceria sekali! 

1 comment:

Shepha said...

wan nurhidayah budak mrsm balik pulau kan?

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